Boys Who Text – Proceed With Caution?
By admin · Posted in bikiniThis semester I am taking a guitar class in college. I somewhat befriended this guy in my class (Tuesday)and we both discovered that we share the same taste in music. When he found out he immediately said “Wow, I’ve got great bands for you to listen to.” He tells me about how a lot of people in class are meeting up to practice and towards the end of our conversation he asked me if I wanted his number and that we could hang out anytime. I can only hang out Friday (I’m busy with my studies and classes on other days), and he said that he would hang out with me any time — tomorrow, Thursday or Friday.So I have him program his number into my cellphone, and then I call it so he has my number as well. We part ways and he tells me “Drive home safely Ashley,” and I say “I will.”
**Well today just 5 minutes ago I received a text that says “I can’t get over you liking Bikini Kill and Babes in Toyland that’s so awesome”.***
SO MY QUESTION: Should I be concerned that his first method of contact outside of the classroom is by text? What does he want with me and out of me?
WHAT I WANT: A friend who could help me with learning guitar and someone who shares my music taste who I can talk to, but also I am attracted to this guy somewhat (my heart is filled with stone at the moment, but I am recovering from the heartbreak).
The text as a first contact isn’t a big deal; it’s just part of the age we live in.
In terms of wanting to get to know him etc, you can’t control what people do, you can only control what you do. Just go with the flow and if you get a bad vibe cut him loose.
he may like you more than a friend